tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post564671132860166391..comments2023-08-29T07:05:33.559-07:00Comments on dear life from noelle: Dear If You've Been Stressed, Please Advise,noelle reginahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06211220149590038163noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-51697017974975636922008-06-20T23:47:00.000-07:002008-06-20T23:47:00.000-07:00Give up and embrace the horror. You can sleep on ...Give up and embrace the horror. You can sleep on your honeymoon...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-9374360261403097402008-06-20T09:35:00.000-07:002008-06-20T09:35:00.000-07:00my advise....this too shall pass!my advise....this too shall pass!auntie libbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06919561168345023576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-71631711742939573822008-06-19T11:25:00.000-07:002008-06-19T11:25:00.000-07:00noelle, start chanting this with me now...it doesn...noelle, start chanting this with me now...<BR/><BR/>it doesn't really matter<BR/><BR/>it doesn't really matter<BR/><BR/>it doesn't really matter. <BR/><BR/>you know what really matters. always be grateful and everything will be wonderful.<BR/><BR/>love you!Alisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03516996539998311520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-38993311264851091792008-06-17T21:18:00.000-07:002008-06-17T21:18:00.000-07:00All of the above! Love you.All of the above! Love you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-68790756595325231942008-06-16T15:39:00.000-07:002008-06-16T15:39:00.000-07:00prayers... lots of prayers to sleep well... a bles...prayers... lots of prayers to sleep well... a blessing to calm your nerves and stress is also bound to calm you enough to be able to sleep. good luckAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-40464053615963441802008-06-15T20:44:00.000-07:002008-06-15T20:44:00.000-07:00You know I'm not big into meds, but have you thoug...You know I'm not big into meds, but have you thought of the possibility of anxiety? It might make your life much easier. I love you! And I know you'll love your wedding!Mack Attackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12809151617204736354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-66161773905321402262008-06-14T10:38:00.000-07:002008-06-14T10:38:00.000-07:00Noelle- I remember the days all too well. It is t...Noelle- I remember the days all too well. It is totally normal to stress about the details and I don't know the right words to make the message poignant enough but here's my take 3 1/2 years into the wonderful life of being a wife...the day, the ONE day is only ONE day. It is important, it is significant that you found someone wonderful and charming and fantastic. It is important that you get married in the right place, by the right authority. It is important that you look lovingly at your spouse :) HOWEVER...it really isn't important what the place settings looked like, what your colors were, if the vendors put up black tenting instead of white, if your flower lady sends you the wrong order of flowers in the wrong colors, in fact...it doesn't even matter if your sealer is on vacation in Utah instead of at your sealing (can you tell I'm experienced in this one) What does matter is every day AFTER that day. It matters that you remember why you love your little husband (i.e. because he puts up with you stressing over the wedding or disappearing the night before to "think") Like I said, the words might not be right- but having lived through some good wedding day blunders- I love my husband more than ever and our life, every day, is even better than the day we got married. You will be FINE, you will be LOVED, and you will be MARRIED not too long from now :) GOOD LUCK!!Ryan and Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08197233873568332149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-24677178498772101392008-06-13T14:37:00.000-07:002008-06-13T14:37:00.000-07:00Whoa partner! Sounds like you got a lot on your pl...Whoa partner! Sounds like you got a lot on your plate. Sometimes I get worried about all the work and things I gotta do but sounds like you worry a little too much ;). What I do to help me relax is I take a relaxation medicine called Absolute Calm. Its a non prescription pill but its not too strong like Xanax so its good for every day stress. I can also use them to help me sleep, just take one like an hour before you go to sleep and it will help u relax. Here's a link: <BR/><BR/>http://getabsolutecalm.com/general/?utm_source=Google&utm_medium<BR/>=media&utm_content=General&utm_campaign=BlogCommentingecrunnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13902892649975134475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-36570305697622187542008-06-13T09:15:00.000-07:002008-06-13T09:15:00.000-07:00noelle. there is no solution. you will be stress...noelle. there is no solution. you will be stressed until the very end of your reception (yes, even the reception is stressful because it's not like you can miss saying "hi" to someone!) you probably won't get good sleep for another 15 days. you will be pissy, tired, and all of the above. BUT, with all that said, i'm sure you're learning to appreciate the little things that bring lots and lots of happiness. <BR/><BR/>my answer to no sleep: ambien. i'm being dead serious. get to the doctor and get some. <BR/><BR/>this is just the reality of planning a wedding. at least you look fabulous. <BR/><BR/>and i'm so glad you found me, cinderella!J & Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17514536582643393090noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-20816210361062803772008-06-13T09:10:00.000-07:002008-06-13T09:10:00.000-07:00I've been reading your blog (via the swapps) as we...I've been reading your blog (via the swapps) as well!<BR/><BR/>Glad you're coming back to your home state. <BR/><BR/>Find sleeping aids, but DONT take them the night before the wedding. My hubs did and got so messed up and was acting weird all day. haha. I'm sure your wedding will be beautiful. Good luck!<BR/><BR/>p.s. I have some lotto #s for you. lol.Katie Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15053882182911888770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-90734938566524757622008-06-12T21:39:00.000-07:002008-06-12T21:39:00.000-07:00If you need any Lunesta, I've got a few samples. ...If you need any Lunesta, I've got a few samples. Paul LOVES them--they are a hot commodity in the Harman household (although they don't work for me.) Trying to enjoy the next month by letting go of a few gratuitous details would be the best, but pharmacology is a close second.<BR/>If that all fails, Kimmy is only a text away.Alissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08441815992931379802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-3342665219168930472008-06-12T20:12:00.000-07:002008-06-12T20:12:00.000-07:00Its all stress until the day of the wedding. Even ...Its all stress until the day of the wedding. Even if every last detail is perfect, you will worry you're forgetting something... Spa day and nyquil worked wonders for me :-) <BR/>Also keeping an on going list that you can check stuff off of is very therapeutic. If possible dedicate a few days before the wedding to only wedding stuff. Knowing you have all of that time to focus without worries of work, moving, goodbyes, etc. will probably help alleviate some worries too. Good luck and if I can help please let me know!Hannahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01409607322086120243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-86637703786344286602008-06-12T14:50:00.000-07:002008-06-12T14:50:00.000-07:00cant you make one list, send your best friends to ...cant you make one list, send your best friends to get it all done while you relax.. i mean they are your friends that you did anything they wanted... now let them return the favor, just ask for a little help!Kent Breard IIIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17112334895313693276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-7338230309902353092008-06-12T13:09:00.000-07:002008-06-12T13:09:00.000-07:00i think you should get a massage every week until ...i think you should get a massage every week until the big day. <BR/><BR/>and then try hard to make yourself believe the truth, which is, you're wedding is going to be fine and everything will fall into place. you have a great apt and a great fiance.E.F.G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10999943452715360094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-19725611787698456462008-06-12T12:37:00.000-07:002008-06-12T12:37:00.000-07:00dear noelle,i keep a pen and paper next to my bed ...dear noelle,<BR/>i keep a pen and paper next to my bed and make lists. no matter how much i have written already, i write it again..something about knowing it's written down always makes me feel better...<BR/>wishing you stress free sleep-<BR/>amandaAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09133595968077225913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-42714075600545011172008-06-12T09:36:00.002-07:002008-06-12T09:36:00.002-07:00To the author of this blog,I appreciate your effor...To the author of this blog,I appreciate your effort in this topic.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-35724084616459610482008-06-12T09:36:00.001-07:002008-06-12T09:36:00.001-07:00Yutarets! kasagad bah!Yutarets! kasagad bah!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-86757092801855977442008-06-12T09:36:00.000-07:002008-06-12T09:36:00.000-07:00I truly appreciate it.I truly appreciate it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-79666989357352187872008-06-12T09:35:00.001-07:002008-06-12T09:35:00.001-07:00that doesn't happen everyday. wish you all the bes...that doesn't happen everyday. wish you all the best.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3464459204831485306.post-45546686663795405432008-06-12T09:35:00.000-07:002008-06-12T09:35:00.000-07:00Well done for this wonderful blog.Well done for this wonderful blog.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com